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Christmas Trips   Leave a comment

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Everywhere I have served as Pastor I have tormented adults and youth with a Christmas IQ quiz. The test is designed to help people differentiate between what Scriptures actually say about the Nativity scene and what traditions we have added to it. Let’s face it, we are professionals at filling in the blanks because we don’t always enjoy stories with missing details.

One of the quiz questions has to do with how Mary traveled when she and Joseph went from Nazareth to Bethlehem. This trip could have taken a couple of days and she was about to pop with baby Jesus. Pardon my uncaring choice of words there. The multiple choice options are that she:
a) rode a donkey while Joseph walked beside her
b) took Amtrak
c) walked just like everyone else
d) the Bible doesn’t say.

Most people select “a” because it just makes too much sense. A donkey has a smoother back than a camel, I’m fairly certain Amtrak wasn’t around yet, and it seems mighty mean of Joseph to make her walk that far being that pregnant.

The correct answer, if you’re curious, is d), the Bible doesn’t say.

The point? Well, there is none, unless you’re trying to score higher on the quiz than everybody else in the room.

We do not know how they traveled although I’m quite certain you can eliminate Amtrak from your guesses. They traveled from Nazareth, crossed the Jordan to go down it’s east side to avoid Samaria like most good Jews did at that time, crossed back over at Jericho, then trekked up the rocky path to Jerusalem, then a few short miles more to Bethlehem.

Do you remember traveling as a child?

I recall a particular journey when I was a child when my Dad took my sister and I to Florida so we could go to Disneyworld. We were in a Volkswagen van that died on us on the way down. All I know is that it took most of the trip money to get it back on the road, so we didn’t get to do a lot upon arrival but did manage to get into Disney. Along the way, Bonnie, my sister and I did a lot of goofy singing, mostly the jingle to Country Corn Flakes. I never really found out if they didn’t wilt when you poured them on milk.

We were kids, and kids on adventures to places where they know there is going to be great fun are usually pretty happy children. So we sang and laughed and had a ball on the way down. I am not sure what it means, but I have zero recollection of the ride home. Actually, I’m positive I know what it means—that part was not nearly as important to me.

The trek that Joseph and Mary were on was certainly nothing fun. They had to go because it was census time and they needed to report to Joseph’s family’s town, Bethlehem. You can imagine the extra burden of not only Mary’s pregnancy, but then upon arrival the highly serious situation of actually delivering the baby! This journey, of course, ended quite well with Jesus, but it was a very tough trip!

How do you approach life these days? The year 2020 has been anything but a picnic or a fun ride to an amusement park. With all of its pitfalls and unexpected twists and devastation, this has been one heck of a ride that nobody has enjoyed. Yet Christians have this one thing in common that keeps us going. It is something that drives us to continue taking the next step we need to keep moving forward.

It is simply this: we know that at the end of our journey, no matter how or when that happens….is Jesus. The Lord is with us every day as the Holy Spirit never leaves our side. That is how we survive the adventure of life. But at the end of that journey, we get to meet Jesus.

And that, my friends, is what the JOY of Christmas is all about for you and me today.

Unwanted Gifts   Leave a comment

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Have you ever received a gift for Christmas that you did not want? Apparently my dad did…on more than one occasion. There were a couple of times my sister and I had opportunities to go through dad’s things, especially after he passed away several years ago. What we discovered were some gifts we had given him some time ago that he evidently never wanted. They were still in their original packaging, brand new. We found this to be a combination of sad, heartbreaking, and oddly hilarious all at once. We didn’t enjoy the discovery yet it didn’t completely surprise us either. Dad was never someone easy to shop for, so I’d imagine after a few years of socks, underwear, and t-shirts that I would have set them off to the side after a while too. After all, what does one do with unwanted gifts?

The story of Jesus’ birth also had an unwanted gift included.

Poor Joseph. He was pleasantly betrothed to that wonderful girl, Mary. We can only speculate how he felt about her because they likely knew one another somehow. We can make some assumptions, but knowing they were on the poor side makes one imagine if they were from families who lived in the same village who wanted to see these two get married. Speculations can be fun, but are pretty irrelevant.

The betrothal period lasted a year and couples were not permitted to have any hanky panky until after the wedding ceremony and feast. After that the normal activities of married couples could commence.

Sometime prior to Joseph’s angelic encounter we read about in Matthew 1, the worst kind of news possible happened to Joseph. Mary was pregnant, and he knew he had not been involved with the process. Now THERE’s a present nobody would want to receive – the one you love has apparently not been faithful. It is the epitome of an unwanted gift. He probably wished he had received extra underwear instead.

Thankfully, this story includes more than an unwanted gift. Joseph was, among other things, caring. He did not seek to have her disgraced (he could have had her killed) but instead opted to end their relationship without fanfare. This is a story of Joesph’s grace.

All of that happened before we get to the Biblical text where the angel appeared to Joseph, shared the news that he was about to become stepdad to the Messiah, and everything moved gloriously forward from there. Joseph showed remarkable kindness to Mary, and God showed even better kindness to them both. They would usher in the greatest gift of all–God’s love personified in Jesus Christ.

My hope for you this Christmas is that you have received the gift of God’s love too. It lasts much longer than socks.

God’s Call and Lessons Learned   1 comment

January 26, 1996. Twenty years ago today I experienced an epiphany. I felt the hand and heard the voice of God. Some do not believe such things are possible and I’m fine with that. What I know is my own experience. I was being shaped and molded proceeding that moment, and remarkable events have defined my life and ministry since. I could write volumes of the things I have experienced in times gone by, but this is a blog, not a novel. For this anniversary I want to summarize some lessons learned in this fantastic adventure. Perhaps they will serve as helpful hints to others called by God.

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Anniversary   Leave a comment

15 years.  Incredible.  15 years ago today I began an adventure in full-time ministry.  The things I have learned since March 1, 1999 could fill volumes in a library and 800GB of memory.  Perhaps it is best if I just point out the bigger lessons…

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Still My Favorite   Leave a comment

Christmas.  How I could so easily write it off this year.  The economy is still down, at least it is in my world.  The costs of raising two teenagers rises constantly, especially with one graduating high school and the other about to get his driver’s license.  Would YOU like to share my car insurance bill?  Diane and I have both had health issues this year with her ankle still not quite what it should be and my knees deterioration continues to heighten.

We have emotional issues dealing with stress – I’m sure you’re shocked.  My Dad passed away this year.  School has drained more of my energy than I told it to.  David Jr. and his family will not be able to make it up from the deep south this time; maybe in spring (fingers crossed).

If I wanted to, I could easily write off this year’s Christmas and sit at home and mope.

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